As Adoptee In U.S. Awaits Deportation, His Korean Birth Mother Is Studying English

November 17, 2016

At a detention facility in Washington state, Adam Crapser waits to be deported to South Korea. Now 41, he was adopted by a U.S. couple at the age of 3.

Meanwhile in South Korea, his birth mother is struggling to learn English so that she can explain herself to her son when he arrives.

As we reported last month, Crapser’s adoptive parents never completed his citizenship process, even though they told him they did. They later gave him and his sister up to the foster system; Crapser wound up with parents who were convicted for abuse.

After his unstable upbringing, Crapser was convicted of several crimes — including burglary of the second family’s home. He said he was breaking in to steal back his own possessions.

When he realized, as an adult, that he was not a citizen, he applied for a Green Card. His past convictions raised a red flag for the federal government, resulting in his deportation order.

Crapser is now preparing to be sent back to South Korea. He speaks no Korean.

The New York Times tracked down his birth mother and learned that she’s preparing for her son’s arrival — trying to learn his language and thinking ahead to what she’ll feed him.

Kwon Pil-ju, who is partially paralyzed, told the newspaper that she gave Crapser and his sister to an orphanage, and another child to a childless family, after their father left her and she couldn’t provide for them.

She said she always believed that they had a better life than she could have given them — “I have never imagined that he was having this hard life of his,” she told the paper through tears. “I should have kept him even if we starved together. What I did was an unforgivable sin.”

You can read the full story at the Times.

Crapser’s story has made headlines but, as the Times notes, he is far from the only adoptee in his situation. Other individuals adopted by U.S. parents have been deported back to South Korea — including one, Monte Haines, who served in the U.S. military before he was deported in the ’90s.

And thousands of other adoptees lack U.S. citizenship and are vulnerable to deportation.

The U.S. government passed a law in 2000 to make children adopted by U.S. citizens automatically citizens themselves. But the law did not apply retroactively — it covered children under 18 and future adoptees only.

Adoption rights advocates have petitioned Congress to grant citizenship to adult adoptees left out by the 2000 law. But the legislation faces “long odds,” as NPR’s Alexandra Starr put it last year.

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